Attachment is the root cause of suffering!

To a few of you who completely misinterpreted the statement of Buddha, “Attachment is the root cause of suffering”

Firstly,
Buddha mentioned attachment to ‘Desires’ is the root cause of suffering because not all desires can be fulfilled.
Attachment to results would screw up your process and that’s what even the Chapter 2 of the Bhagavad-Gita says. Krishna says, “Concentrate on the process of your work and not results (desires)”.

For God’s sake, please do not interpret this statement to relationships. 

Suppose your father, mother, loved one, sibling, guru and god weren’t attached to you, would you have even grown to this level?

Where are deep emotional bonding in relationships nowadays?

I know social media has made it easy for us to connect with many individuals but with how many have we had deep relationships with?

Let’s not lose out on having an emotional connect with at least living beings.

I know it hurts when the other person betrays you but you can make a difference by not betraying anyone’s trust in relationships.
Suppose if the person whom're you're attached to passes away, be proud of yourself for being there in his/her life till their death. They would have thanked God to have had you in their life.

Leave your social media,
Connect with individuals, Create happy loving deep memories with them, Love individuals hopelessly because they’re the ones who're going to be there with you always.

If someone’s betrayed your trust, you don’t betray anybody’s trust.
If you’ve gone through bad times because of a relationship, see to that no one goes through similar things because of you.

If one relationship hurts you, why do you want to lose trust on relationships itself? Be happy that few other relationships are going well in your life.

Love people, live with them,
The world is so beautiful.

Thank you for some individuals whom I have got attached to,
It’s because of you guys, I realised this truth.

Show the power of love to the world,
#WinWorldByLove.

Dear Advisors,

Yes, I know I have completed my education! I've a master's degree from a very reputed institute, mind you! Yet, I am not placed in any MNC as of now! It might surprise you! But, my decisions are like that! It can shock and surprise anyone! I'm not being arrogant, just that I'm confident! I want to explore more opportunities as I’m going to spend one third of my life with what I choose to do!

I totally understand your well-wishing concern for me. As a well wisher, you wanna see me ‘settle’ quickly in life! But, I'm in no hurry. Life isn't Olympics that we need to be high on preparation. Take it easy. Make it easy. Moreover, The word settle is too subtle.

Similarly, to me getting settled in life is not working for someone, but, getting settled is few hundreds of people working together with each other. The word settle has different meaning to different individuals and please respect it.

I don't need your unsolicited advice on my beautiful life. Did I give you an advice when you never asked for it? BE WISE, DON'T GIVE AN ADVICE!

What is the point of doing something which doesn’t allow me to express myself?
Why should I do something which doesn’t add any value to my life?WORK helps in my total EXPRESSION. EXPRESSION leads to my total TRANSFORMATION.

I don’t mind if my work leaves me with messy hair, sleepless nights and hungry because at the end of my life, I should have no regrets that I lived my life waiting for weekends and not for weekdays.
Actually my work should put me across challenges and opportunities in order to fulfil my dreams and live the way I want. I believe that the biggest opportunity called ‘life’ shouldn’t be wasted to do mediocre things.One day I’ll make all of you, my dear friends and well wishers, proud with my work. I know that a better job is always better than a better paying job. I believe in doing what I love.

- A frustrated Youth who had hundreds of people to advise him when he chose to go the other way!

PS, If your work is not letting you express yourself, it’s time to think!! Do what you Love and it never gives you time to hate.
Win World by Love 

Destroy your enemies today!

President Lincoln while addressing a gathering was speaking something very good about people who wanted to put him down.
A journalist then asked,"Mr President, why do you speak so much good about your enemies? Shouldn't you be destroying them instead?

Lincoln answered, "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"

Lets not destroy our enemies, Let's destroy the feeling of enmity with the tool called LOVE!
Come join hands to build a better world filled with Love and Happiness.
Let's not be a generation that just goes by as time flies, 
Instead Let's be the generation to make an impact to the society. 

Win World by Love

Introduction to me and my intention behind starting this blog.

I’m Ruthuparna Sharma, well I think this much introduction is enough and you can get to know more about me once you start following my posts in my blog. At least by this way of getting to know about me, I wish you read more posts of mine.

Well, I’m very much passionate of being a businessman just because of the desire of making a mark in life. I would not like to be anybody in this opportunity of life and I want to make a mark and be “somebody” in this life.

We've seen many successful and famous people who've made it big in the world today because of a discomfort which caused within them through a situation, like how Gandhi being ill-treated in a railway platform in South Africa had an impact of he coming to India and turning things around which he did for this country. Like this many situations can be quoted but one thing common in all these situations were that any great impact only came out of a discomfort caused in the mind through situations.

In my case I found discomfort in many such situations. Don’t know whether I was normal or anything had happened to me because we know that one situation only is capable enough of making a history but many such situations caused a mystery on myself. For example there was a discomfort in me in learning a subject in my schooling, the people being not treated well etc etc etc

The situations that caused a discomfort within me had nothing in common but I can tell that i found out a tool that could be used to solve these problems and it can be used anywhere and many more problems in this world can be easily solved.  I thought I could be the next Gandhi to this world for a moment when I thought about this tool and went and advised around 3 to 4 friends saying you can solve these problems by the tool and motivated them but was of no use and got advised in return from them. It was a failure from 3 to 4 of my friends whom I failed to explain this to them, so I thought maybe I’m not right and this tool might only be of use and help to me. To be honest there was a call within me which said this was very much possible.

For this reason I've come opened my own blog. Just imagine a happier, loving and a world that you dream of where there is no fear to live properly. If 3 or 4 failed to understand, I'm pretty sure each and everyone will eventually understand the importance of it.

Well I'm pretty sure that you guys would've got to know about the "tool" i was talking by seeing the title. Yes, i was talking about the most powerful tool that is hidden within us or which we haven't yet realised it properly. I was talking about LOVE. Well I feel I need not give any introduction to this topic as we all know what it is, how it is and everything. I'm just here to make you gradually realize how we can use it to build a better world. How to use it? Is a new world filled with love, happiness, bliss, joy possible? 

Yes, Obviously it is possible.

Many more posts to come, will keep updating one by one. 

Love you all.