Why is this happening only to me ?

Sometimes when the going gets tough, you stare at the stars, cry out to an infinite power, wonder why life is getting tougher day by day and also questions in mind arise like why we’re going through what we’re going through…

Reasons can be many like death of a loved one, break-ups, financial struggle, hair loss, career struggle etc.  and even when there are lots of people around us, there is an enormous amount of loneliness that one goes through at these times...

It’s those situations of life where, ‘what you want most is what the universe doesn’t want to give you.’

I started searching for answers,

Friend’s advises like, “Whatever happens, happens for good” started irritating me. Not that it wasn’t true but it wasn’t helping me in that situation.

I closed my eyes and I realized that for these questions of life, there actually isn’t any answer. 

If it’s meant to happen, it will happen. Previously when I had faced such situations, somehow time took me through these situations and now as well I know it will.

But when I went through these situations,

I got to know that there were some lessons that life taught me during these tough times. I also realized that I as a finite intelligence couldn’t comprehend the infinite intelligence and thus decided that I’ll not only go through life but I’ll grow through life through the experiences that God has planned for me.

Life prepares you for bigger things through tough times. Don’t only go through it, Grow through it. Stop questioning, Start acting positively according to the situations.

Win World by Love...

Cry for the right reasons

In our childhood, crying was a magical medicine to whatever pain we had..
Today, crying increases pain; The more we cry, the more pain it creates.
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"Today's crying creates pain, Childhood's crying vanished pain."
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-Cry for right reasons. Use the magic of tears to wipe off your pain and not to create pain. 

Attachment is the root cause of suffering!

To a few of you who completely misinterpreted the statement of Buddha, “Attachment is the root cause of suffering”

Firstly,
Buddha mentioned attachment to ‘Desires’ is the root cause of suffering because not all desires can be fulfilled.
Attachment to results would screw up your process and that’s what even the Chapter 2 of the Bhagavad-Gita says. Krishna says, “Concentrate on the process of your work and not results (desires)”.

For God’s sake, please do not interpret this statement to relationships. 

Suppose your father, mother, loved one, sibling, guru and god weren’t attached to you, would you have even grown to this level?

Where are deep emotional bonding in relationships nowadays?

I know social media has made it easy for us to connect with many individuals but with how many have we had deep relationships with?

Let’s not lose out on having an emotional connect with at least living beings.

I know it hurts when the other person betrays you but you can make a difference by not betraying anyone’s trust in relationships.
Suppose if the person whom're you're attached to passes away, be proud of yourself for being there in his/her life till their death. They would have thanked God to have had you in their life.

Leave your social media,
Connect with individuals, Create happy loving deep memories with them, Love individuals hopelessly because they’re the ones who're going to be there with you always.

If someone’s betrayed your trust, you don’t betray anybody’s trust.
If you’ve gone through bad times because of a relationship, see to that no one goes through similar things because of you.

If one relationship hurts you, why do you want to lose trust on relationships itself? Be happy that few other relationships are going well in your life.

Love people, live with them,
The world is so beautiful.

Thank you for some individuals whom I have got attached to,
It’s because of you guys, I realised this truth.

Show the power of love to the world,
#WinWorldByLove.

Wishing you Happy and a Glorious 2016

It’ll be 2016 after a few days, how quickly time passes know?” said my friend as he put his hand on my shoulder. In the flow of that conversation I said yes and continued talking. When I came back home, I realised that how can year by year pass so quickly? Every year has 365 days and each day has 24 hours. Still why many of us think time flies? This thought was lingered in my mind. Just then I came across a very good friend of mine who hated her job but was over burdened with a lot of work. I asked what her new year’s plans was, and she said she had to work. Suddenly I realised that, Many of us think time flies because we always keep waiting what next would happen but fail to enjoy that particular moment. We fail to enjoy the smallest moments because of our day to day stress, tension, worries and busy schedule. How long has it been since you have enjoyed your morning coffee? How long has it been since you enjoyed a sunrise? How long has it been since you gazed at the stars in dark nights. There is so much of beauty around us and we have failed to have “Pause moments” in our busy life today. Pause moments are the moments when you lose yourself enjoying something really good. I wish everyone is filled with a lot of Pause moments in this upcoming year. Let’s try something new, visit new places, dance to the latest beats and take a pledge to enjoy every moment in the upcoming year 2016. Relax, Live, Love and Celebrate every moment of life. Finally WinWorldbyLove.

Destroy your enemies today!

President Lincoln while addressing a gathering was speaking something very good about people who wanted to put him down.
A journalist then asked,"Mr President, why do you speak so much good about your enemies? Shouldn't you be destroying them instead?

Lincoln answered, "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"

Lets not destroy our enemies, Let's destroy the feeling of enmity with the tool called LOVE!
Come join hands to build a better world filled with Love and Happiness.
Let's not be a generation that just goes by as time flies, 
Instead Let's be the generation to make an impact to the society. 

Win World by Love

Life is all about Recreating Yourself.!

I thought about conveying today's post through this video. Watch this alone for more effectiveness. Share this video for more people to recreate themselves. Let the change begin with you! Recreate Yourself! 'Let's together make this world a beautiful place.

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Who actually is your best friend?

As soon as you read this title, I'm sure you'll be thinking about one or two people as to who your best friend is. But No, I here am talking about the best friend who was with you all these years since your birth.

There was once a priest in a town who always used to address and advice the problems and needs of the people in the town. On a particular day when the priest was walking back home after his session of addressing the problems of people, a little girl stopped him on the way to ask him a question.

The priest for a moment thought of asking the girl to come and meet him next day morning as he was very tired but seeing the innocence on the girl’s face he thought he will answer the girl and took the girl to a place where they could sit. When the priest asked what the girl wanted to know, the girl asked, “You give solutions to many people when they face problems, many people today are free from their problems and are happy. I want to know what you do when you face problems. Do you go to anyone? ” 

The priest was shocked to know that such a small girl was asking such a big question that no one ever had asked the priest. The priest smiled and said, “I go to my best friend when I face problems!”

“Oh! You have a best friend? Who is he/she?” the girl asked curiously.

The priest held his hand over the girl’s head and told, “Very often, we support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we analyse this process properly we never realise we have solution within us. But the problem is many people fail to recognise that when they can be a solution provider for others, they also can be a solution provider for themselves.”

This is so exciting! How does this go?

You got to become your best friend for it. When you have time for others, why don’t you have time for yourself? Spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself. Start analysing your day to day activities and you’ll live your life then not as a ‘Problem finder’ but as a ‘Solution giver’. I have to leave now, I’ll meet you sometime later as a great person. Win World by Love” he wished and left.

Very often we give advises and support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we face problems we don't know what to do and we consult others for solutions. Ever wondered why that happens? 

We get to spend so much time with others and eventually end up not spending time with ourselves. 

Just spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself from today and start analyzing your day to day activities. Become your own best friend, find solutions to your problems and you'll start living a happy loving life. 

Finally  “WINWORLDBYLOVE”.

It's time to make your Day, A Great Day!

It was time for the principal to announce the best teacher award in the school assembly that day and most of the students almost knew whom the award belonged to. “The Best Teacher award for this year goes to Amuka” announced the principal and there was a loud cheer from the students standing in the assembly.

Amuka always used to divide his class into two halves. The first part would be to teach the subject and the second part was telling short stories which had morals in it which led to the overall development of the children. The principal called Amuka on stage to speak a few words,

Amuka walked on stage and paused for a minute standing in front of the mic. The assembly was quiet and wanted to hear to him. “Can we learn something today itself sir?” asked the principle mockingly!

Amuka smiled, took a deep breath and continued, “I wish every one of you a Great morning! (There was a huge round of applause) Very often and very mechanically we wish people a Good Morning, a Good afternoon or a Good evening for which people also wish back without even knowing why we wish. When we wish a person Good Morning, it means that I wish your morning be good. We mechanically have developed a habit of wishing a person since our childhood, why can’t we improvise in we wishing people? 
Everything in the world has evolved today like your phones, computers, automobiles etc. except the way we wish people. It’s time to evolve and that’s the reason I’ve updated my GM from Good Morning to Great Morning. Let us start this practice from today and actually start wishing people the best. Try experiencing this from today and indulge in the process of wishing people the best and enjoy the feel of you getting wished back with similar best wishes. Today is a day that'll never come again for you and me, Make it a great one! Thank you one and all”

There was a big round of applause after he spoke and later the principle thanked him for talking something that could make an impact to the entire school as well as the society. “Wishing you all a GREAT MORNING and I wish you have a Great day ahead”, wished the principal and concluded the assembly.

Watch people getting into office, school or college in the morning hours, everyone keeps saying “Good morning”. Most of them just do it mechanically and they don’t even notice the person they wished.  It’s time to evolve and update our Good to Great/Happy/Best. Any how we wish people every day, why not we wish them the best? See the change in the environment around you once you start this process. Remember, Today is a day that'll never come again for you, therefore make it a Great one! 

I wish you a GREAT DAY! Lastly, WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Let's not make this an Activity; Lets turn this into Productivity.

I would like to thank each and everyone of you for the appreciation and the tremendous response I got for my first post which meant like scoring a goal in the very first minute of a football game, having said that I also know that any game is not over till the very end. For all the response and the appreciation that I've got, I would like to promise you that the quality of my posts from now on will keep getting better. A motivation and an encouragement always to a cause is when the posts are being shared so that some of these are at least put into use by somebody in their life and this can only happen when it reaches to many people.
Collection of many droplets can form an ocean, Let's share and together march to build a new world for us and for our future generation.
 As the title says,
Let's not make this an activity of reading or writing, 
Let's make this productive by implementing to situations of daily life and spreading it.

Why "WIN WORLD BY LOVE"?

We can only give to the society what we have, for example a person having a lot of money can give money, a person having cloths can give cloths and a place having a resource can give out it's resource (for example Dubai giving out fossil fuels). When it comes to the question of what we can give out to the society, we need to know that God has created us with so much of love and creativity that there was not a single person born like the other in the entire history of humanity and there will not be any person same as the other. This alone is enough for us to understand how much love we are made up with that we're none like the rest. From this can we conclude that the greatest resource which was flowing abundantly within us was Love.

"There is no limit as to how many people a person can love or how much a person can love the other! "

So can we start giving out love to the other people since there is no limit as to how many you can love? The more love you give to others, the more it flows within us and we saw this through a lady who served humanity with so much of love flowing within her who was named Mother Teresa.  

From now on, I would like to convey my messages through stories which I've always loved to express messages. These messages or stories would not be from any book or from any persons, these would be just mere truths that I would like to express by looking at the observations of life.


To paint smiles across grieving hearts, 
I begin my journey penning down my thoughts;
Stories are the one I've loved since my childhood,
Through them I shall promise you
A happily loving world.
Lets put our hands together
And Win World by Love!

Thank you all,
Love you so much,
Stay tuned.