Smile or Smiley?

“You’ve forgotten to smile since the usage of smiley began. Laughing now has become LOL, ROFL and LMAO. You aren’t able to have lunch/dinner without using a smart phone. When was the last that you spoke to your beloved ones without having a mobile in our hand? Is technology taking over humanity so much?” A frustrated grandfather wrote this before his death.

Aren’t we becoming DUMB with the use of SMART phones? Is our relation with the smart phone important than our relation with others? Think!!

Let us not allow the above incident to happen in our lives. Let any relation not feel that we give importance to our mobile phones than them. It’s time to give a break to our thumbs and give some work to our brains.

Let’s start smiling than using a Smiley;

And begin actual laughing than using LOL, ROFL etc.

We shall spend quality time with our family and friends,

And see to that these relationships never ends.

Be SMARTER than the Smart phones,

And then see how your World Glows!

Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE!

Who are you Father!

It was a Sunday and it was the day when Nikhil and Meera were taken to their grandmother’s place. Nikhil and Meera were twins and they used to visit their grandmother almost 4 times a month. Their grandmother loved spending time with these kids playing with them, feeding them lunch, watching movies and finally the last part which these kids loved the most which was sleeping on granny's lap and listening to stories which was one of the main reason for them to visit her so often. 

These stories not only made them sleep but also it helped them gain a lot of maturity.

Nikhil and Meera were upset on a particular day when they were yelled by their father and eventually the decent kids complained this to their grandmother and their grandmother just smiled for once and said “Its fine! We shall take care of him later.” The kids as usual forgot everything and were in their own world playing and later came to get the lunch fed by their grandmother. 

After feeding them lunch, the grandmother gently made both the kids sleep on her lap and told,

“There was once a man who never looked for praises, who was not the one who used to boast about himself, he always used to quietly go for work and he always used to see to that his family never suffered what he suffered. He was the happiest man when his children were born and he saw to that he gave everything to them. He was ready to do anything when they had health issues but he was a man with lot of ego to express his love towards his children and family.

Once he was facing a lot of trouble at the place of his work but he never shared it with his family members as he didn’t want to disturb their peace of mind with his head ache. This disturbance went on for a long period where he couldn’t outburst anything to his boss but one day he came home and outburst in front of his children, whom he had the freedom to express. His children thought that their father didn’t love them any longer for this incident and his children were upset.”

There was a long pause after she completed telling about this person. The children were misty eyed and didn’t know what to do.

The grandmother continued, “Dear children, don’t make it too late to forgive your first hero of your life! Sometimes you don’t even know what he’s going through; if he yells at you for no reason, it means that he’s expressing to you what he couldn’t express to others. When this happens, just hug him and say I understand. Don’t let small misunderstandings become large disappointments.”

When the children returned back home in the evening, they hugged their father and said, “Paa, Thank you! In every way you’ve seen to that our lives is better than yours. Love you.”

Their father was shocked and hugged back his children and drops of tears rolled down the cheek of the father!

In our adolescent years, whenever we get shouted at by our father we feel he doesn’t love us anymore. Fathers are egoistic compared to mothers in expression of love. Day and night he selflessly works for the people whom he loves the most. Most of us fail to express our fathers the way we love him when he’s alive. Take an opportunity in expressing him your love today. In case he isn’t anymore, take a moment in closing your eyes and say “Thank you”!

 Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Inspiration to many- Women

Graduation! It's a day where students wait eagerly during the beginning of a year and a day which they don’t want to come during their final year.  It is a day where maximum of photo sessions are seen like it does during a marriage. It is an emotional day where you don’t want to let go off your memories with your friends, teachers and the campus.

Erika, who was a graduate that day was beautifully dressed in a saree. She had a smile which radiated through her eyes to the people indicating the joy of graduating and her smile also radiated a vision which was within her to achieve big in life with flying colours.

Erika was very different compared to other girls of her age, she was a happy girl and was matured enough to handle things. “Happy girls are the prettiest” she used to say and move around where people surrounding Erika would be happy seeing her happiness. It was a lesson for other girls to know that happy girls attracted the most to people than any other prettier girls. Erika’s maturity and her character made her have a lot of friends. She was the college topper for that year and she was a few moments away from receiving the felicitation from the principal.

All of us would feel the same on graduation day, that the time period in college passed very quickly and so was the case of everyone in her college.

Erika, before receiving the certificate of graduation from the principal wanted to meet a person who was solely responsible for her to be the way she was. The anxiety of meeting him for one last time made Erika fear and slowly started walking towards the staff room where Vijay used to sit. Vijay was busy posing for pictures with his students.

“Ah! There you are” said the master happily to Erika. They both shared a very good chemistry in the college of a student and a teacher and Vijay had helped Erika a lot in her personality development. One of the statement that Vijay had taught her was ‘’Happy Girls are the prettiest’’ which made Erika be a happy person.

“”I’m going to miss you so much” said Erika to Vijay where tears were about to roll down her cheeks. Vijay casually held his hand over her head and said, “I surely will miss you too my dear.”

Then Vijay congratulated Erika for her performance in academics and Erika just wished she could’ve received the certificate from the person who mattered the most in the college, Vijay. Vijay wanted to tell Erika what always kept him worried at the back of his mind when he used to think about women today.

In this society, we always find a girl who tops in school, we always find a girl who tops in her exam during college days but where is her performance as she starts getting older? This always used to worry Vijay regarding his female students. Their contribution to the society is not appreciated and the perception about women doing something for themselves should be changed. They too have dreams, they should be allowed to fulfill them and do something big without having to compromise. Vijay advised Erika regarding this and finally their talk was over when Vijay wished Erika to make it big in life to her maximum capable potential. Erika gently smiled and thanked her master who was her inspiration. Their conversation ended with a smile and finally the master had some expectation of women too achieving the way he dreamt of.

“I’ll not compromise for anything sir, the days of me reaching the top are soon to come’’.  I will do it, I will do it, she said to herself and moved to the auditorium to get felicitated with her degree. 

Dear women, do not compromise on your dream for anything. Your potential is being appreciated during your younger days, continue to make a difference as you grow old. Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE.