A Relationship

"A RELATIONSHIP"

“You are the best thing that happened to me. You’ll find a better girl than me” she said that popular filmy dialogue and hugged him for one last time. There came the all too familiar and monotonous break up!
He was devastated. He truly loved her and he could not believe that she was no more going to be a part of his life. Whenever she needed help, he was the first person to provide her all the required resources. His timely advices sometimes gave her back the lost confidence to not only live, but to live happily and meaningfully. He was her backbone and assisted her in overcoming all the challenges she faced. He was no less than a mentor to her. He went an extra mile to help her take up different tasks and convert them into significant opportunities that transformed her life from good to better.
The boy was no petty guy. He equally loved his dreams. Those dreams were realistic. He was capable of achieving them successfully. He dreamed of establishing an organization and employ 100s of people. He had plans to be a philanthropist and work towards the education of 1000s of youngsters.
But, do you know why she left him?
She says, “He is not yet settled”. She was also not happy with him for he was not spending adequate time with her.
He always wondered if love only meant spending time at coffee shops, talking to each other for hours a day, making love, Etc. Or was life all about getting a job in a company that offers a fat and handsome salary? It was a cake walk for him to crack those interviews which eventually offered fat-salaried jobs and also irritating managers. But, he desired to own an organisation where he offered salaries to people and build their life.
Thus, our hero, just walked by slowly once she left!
He had decided not to ever lead an ordinary life with her. He forever thought she had to be one person who deserves all his love. He cherished the idea of her being his pillar of strength. But, not anymore! Dreams are meant to end, so are the modern day love stories. He took out his cell phone and immediately typed this and sent to her –
“I will feel very lonely as you aren’t with me anymore. I shared every dream of mine with you because I believed you. I thought you are capable of standing by my side in the most difficult times of my life. I pushed you to pursue your dreams too. I never made you to let go off the best opportunities you came across.
Well, well, I’ll continue to pursue my dreams! You might have let me down, but I will not let my dreams down!
After you, there might be girls who'll come and go in my life but as and when there'll be a moment when a girl will come and not go out of my life, I'll gift her not only myself but all the luxuries of life with lots of love.
You know why?
I know I'll be the best version of me when I'm with her and she'll be the best version of her when she's with me in every situation we come across because I believe that a relationship is all about two people bringing out the best out of each other. Thank you!"

PS: Let relationships get the best out of you.
Win World by Love.

Wishing you Happy and a Glorious 2016

It’ll be 2016 after a few days, how quickly time passes know?” said my friend as he put his hand on my shoulder. In the flow of that conversation I said yes and continued talking. When I came back home, I realised that how can year by year pass so quickly? Every year has 365 days and each day has 24 hours. Still why many of us think time flies? This thought was lingered in my mind. Just then I came across a very good friend of mine who hated her job but was over burdened with a lot of work. I asked what her new year’s plans was, and she said she had to work. Suddenly I realised that, Many of us think time flies because we always keep waiting what next would happen but fail to enjoy that particular moment. We fail to enjoy the smallest moments because of our day to day stress, tension, worries and busy schedule. How long has it been since you have enjoyed your morning coffee? How long has it been since you enjoyed a sunrise? How long has it been since you gazed at the stars in dark nights. There is so much of beauty around us and we have failed to have “Pause moments” in our busy life today. Pause moments are the moments when you lose yourself enjoying something really good. I wish everyone is filled with a lot of Pause moments in this upcoming year. Let’s try something new, visit new places, dance to the latest beats and take a pledge to enjoy every moment in the upcoming year 2016. Relax, Live, Love and Celebrate every moment of life. Finally WinWorldbyLove.

Destroy your enemies today!

President Lincoln while addressing a gathering was speaking something very good about people who wanted to put him down.
A journalist then asked,"Mr President, why do you speak so much good about your enemies? Shouldn't you be destroying them instead?

Lincoln answered, "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"

Lets not destroy our enemies, Let's destroy the feeling of enmity with the tool called LOVE!
Come join hands to build a better world filled with Love and Happiness.
Let's not be a generation that just goes by as time flies, 
Instead Let's be the generation to make an impact to the society. 

Win World by Love

Life is all about Recreating Yourself.!

I thought about conveying today's post through this video. Watch this alone for more effectiveness. Share this video for more people to recreate themselves. Let the change begin with you! Recreate Yourself! 'Let's together make this world a beautiful place.

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Who actually is your best friend?

As soon as you read this title, I'm sure you'll be thinking about one or two people as to who your best friend is. But No, I here am talking about the best friend who was with you all these years since your birth.

There was once a priest in a town who always used to address and advice the problems and needs of the people in the town. On a particular day when the priest was walking back home after his session of addressing the problems of people, a little girl stopped him on the way to ask him a question.

The priest for a moment thought of asking the girl to come and meet him next day morning as he was very tired but seeing the innocence on the girl’s face he thought he will answer the girl and took the girl to a place where they could sit. When the priest asked what the girl wanted to know, the girl asked, “You give solutions to many people when they face problems, many people today are free from their problems and are happy. I want to know what you do when you face problems. Do you go to anyone? ” 

The priest was shocked to know that such a small girl was asking such a big question that no one ever had asked the priest. The priest smiled and said, “I go to my best friend when I face problems!”

“Oh! You have a best friend? Who is he/she?” the girl asked curiously.

The priest held his hand over the girl’s head and told, “Very often, we support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we analyse this process properly we never realise we have solution within us. But the problem is many people fail to recognise that when they can be a solution provider for others, they also can be a solution provider for themselves.”

This is so exciting! How does this go?

You got to become your best friend for it. When you have time for others, why don’t you have time for yourself? Spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself. Start analysing your day to day activities and you’ll live your life then not as a ‘Problem finder’ but as a ‘Solution giver’. I have to leave now, I’ll meet you sometime later as a great person. Win World by Love” he wished and left.

Very often we give advises and support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we face problems we don't know what to do and we consult others for solutions. Ever wondered why that happens? 

We get to spend so much time with others and eventually end up not spending time with ourselves. 

Just spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself from today and start analyzing your day to day activities. Become your own best friend, find solutions to your problems and you'll start living a happy loving life. 

Finally  “WINWORLDBYLOVE”.

Friend! A Cosmic Gift and Responsibility!

Some chemistry in the cosmic presence makes you meet a few people and you’ll no longer feel alone. This chemistry with a person makes you learn, succeed, grow, fight, fall, etc. and it is known as friendship. A friend is a cosmic gift to one's life who contributes in many ways and gives us experiences(Good or Bad) to carry for a lifetime!
Friendship might have many definitions and meanings but what it means to you differs from what it means to me. Always remember,

“Friendship is a responsibility and it’s a relationship that is not limited with any boundaries.”

This post is not to write about friendship because friendship day must not be restricted to one day as it's an everyday celebration. 

The reason I wrote this post is to ask you to take a few minutes to close your eyes and remember all your friends who were with you from childhood till this day. I’m sure a smile is going to blossom from your heart during this process.

Activity:
On this friendship day, Can you talk to that one friend who was very close to you but now you don’t talk to him/her because of ego? This requires a lot of courage to be done but try doing this and I’m sure things will not be the same. I did mine, it’s time for you to talk to him/her.

Finally I take this opportunity to thank every friend of mine for everything and I dedicate this post to all of you carrying a responsibility of friendship;
Loving you all so much,

WIN WORLD BY LOVE

It's time to make your Day, A Great Day!

It was time for the principal to announce the best teacher award in the school assembly that day and most of the students almost knew whom the award belonged to. “The Best Teacher award for this year goes to Amuka” announced the principal and there was a loud cheer from the students standing in the assembly.

Amuka always used to divide his class into two halves. The first part would be to teach the subject and the second part was telling short stories which had morals in it which led to the overall development of the children. The principal called Amuka on stage to speak a few words,

Amuka walked on stage and paused for a minute standing in front of the mic. The assembly was quiet and wanted to hear to him. “Can we learn something today itself sir?” asked the principle mockingly!

Amuka smiled, took a deep breath and continued, “I wish every one of you a Great morning! (There was a huge round of applause) Very often and very mechanically we wish people a Good Morning, a Good afternoon or a Good evening for which people also wish back without even knowing why we wish. When we wish a person Good Morning, it means that I wish your morning be good. We mechanically have developed a habit of wishing a person since our childhood, why can’t we improvise in we wishing people? 
Everything in the world has evolved today like your phones, computers, automobiles etc. except the way we wish people. It’s time to evolve and that’s the reason I’ve updated my GM from Good Morning to Great Morning. Let us start this practice from today and actually start wishing people the best. Try experiencing this from today and indulge in the process of wishing people the best and enjoy the feel of you getting wished back with similar best wishes. Today is a day that'll never come again for you and me, Make it a great one! Thank you one and all”

There was a big round of applause after he spoke and later the principle thanked him for talking something that could make an impact to the entire school as well as the society. “Wishing you all a GREAT MORNING and I wish you have a Great day ahead”, wished the principal and concluded the assembly.

Watch people getting into office, school or college in the morning hours, everyone keeps saying “Good morning”. Most of them just do it mechanically and they don’t even notice the person they wished.  It’s time to evolve and update our Good to Great/Happy/Best. Any how we wish people every day, why not we wish them the best? See the change in the environment around you once you start this process. Remember, Today is a day that'll never come again for you, therefore make it a Great one! 

I wish you a GREAT DAY! Lastly, WIN WORLD BY LOVE.