Big learning in small incident! Story of 10 rupees coin...

Just because the society will not accept, will you believe it to be true? Here's a funny incident that changed the perspective of life for me...

Let nobody stop you and your dreams...
Win World by Love...

Why is this happening only to me ?

Sometimes when the going gets tough, you stare at the stars, cry out to an infinite power, wonder why life is getting tougher day by day and also questions in mind arise like why we’re going through what we’re going through…

Reasons can be many like death of a loved one, break-ups, financial struggle, hair loss, career struggle etc.  and even when there are lots of people around us, there is an enormous amount of loneliness that one goes through at these times...

It’s those situations of life where, ‘what you want most is what the universe doesn’t want to give you.’

I started searching for answers,

Friend’s advises like, “Whatever happens, happens for good” started irritating me. Not that it wasn’t true but it wasn’t helping me in that situation.

I closed my eyes and I realized that for these questions of life, there actually isn’t any answer. 

If it’s meant to happen, it will happen. Previously when I had faced such situations, somehow time took me through these situations and now as well I know it will.

But when I went through these situations,

I got to know that there were some lessons that life taught me during these tough times. I also realized that I as a finite intelligence couldn’t comprehend the infinite intelligence and thus decided that I’ll not only go through life but I’ll grow through life through the experiences that God has planned for me.

Life prepares you for bigger things through tough times. Don’t only go through it, Grow through it. Stop questioning, Start acting positively according to the situations.

Win World by Love...

Cry for the right reasons

In our childhood, crying was a magical medicine to whatever pain we had..
Today, crying increases pain; The more we cry, the more pain it creates.
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"Today's crying creates pain, Childhood's crying vanished pain."
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-Cry for right reasons. Use the magic of tears to wipe off your pain and not to create pain. 

Attachment is the root cause of suffering!

To a few of you who completely misinterpreted the statement of Buddha, “Attachment is the root cause of suffering”

Firstly,
Buddha mentioned attachment to ‘Desires’ is the root cause of suffering because not all desires can be fulfilled.
Attachment to results would screw up your process and that’s what even the Chapter 2 of the Bhagavad-Gita says. Krishna says, “Concentrate on the process of your work and not results (desires)”.

For God’s sake, please do not interpret this statement to relationships. 

Suppose your father, mother, loved one, sibling, guru and god weren’t attached to you, would you have even grown to this level?

Where are deep emotional bonding in relationships nowadays?

I know social media has made it easy for us to connect with many individuals but with how many have we had deep relationships with?

Let’s not lose out on having an emotional connect with at least living beings.

I know it hurts when the other person betrays you but you can make a difference by not betraying anyone’s trust in relationships.
Suppose if the person whom're you're attached to passes away, be proud of yourself for being there in his/her life till their death. They would have thanked God to have had you in their life.

Leave your social media,
Connect with individuals, Create happy loving deep memories with them, Love individuals hopelessly because they’re the ones who're going to be there with you always.

If someone’s betrayed your trust, you don’t betray anybody’s trust.
If you’ve gone through bad times because of a relationship, see to that no one goes through similar things because of you.

If one relationship hurts you, why do you want to lose trust on relationships itself? Be happy that few other relationships are going well in your life.

Love people, live with them,
The world is so beautiful.

Thank you for some individuals whom I have got attached to,
It’s because of you guys, I realised this truth.

Show the power of love to the world,
#WinWorldByLove.

Dear Advisors,

Yes, I know I have completed my education! I've a master's degree from a very reputed institute, mind you! Yet, I am not placed in any MNC as of now! It might surprise you! But, my decisions are like that! It can shock and surprise anyone! I'm not being arrogant, just that I'm confident! I want to explore more opportunities as I’m going to spend one third of my life with what I choose to do!

I totally understand your well-wishing concern for me. As a well wisher, you wanna see me ‘settle’ quickly in life! But, I'm in no hurry. Life isn't Olympics that we need to be high on preparation. Take it easy. Make it easy. Moreover, The word settle is too subtle.

Similarly, to me getting settled in life is not working for someone, but, getting settled is few hundreds of people working together with each other. The word settle has different meaning to different individuals and please respect it.

I don't need your unsolicited advice on my beautiful life. Did I give you an advice when you never asked for it? BE WISE, DON'T GIVE AN ADVICE!

What is the point of doing something which doesn’t allow me to express myself?
Why should I do something which doesn’t add any value to my life?WORK helps in my total EXPRESSION. EXPRESSION leads to my total TRANSFORMATION.

I don’t mind if my work leaves me with messy hair, sleepless nights and hungry because at the end of my life, I should have no regrets that I lived my life waiting for weekends and not for weekdays.
Actually my work should put me across challenges and opportunities in order to fulfil my dreams and live the way I want. I believe that the biggest opportunity called ‘life’ shouldn’t be wasted to do mediocre things.One day I’ll make all of you, my dear friends and well wishers, proud with my work. I know that a better job is always better than a better paying job. I believe in doing what I love.

- A frustrated Youth who had hundreds of people to advise him when he chose to go the other way!

PS, If your work is not letting you express yourself, it’s time to think!! Do what you Love and it never gives you time to hate.
Win World by Love 

A Relationship

"A RELATIONSHIP"

“You are the best thing that happened to me. You’ll find a better girl than me” she said that popular filmy dialogue and hugged him for one last time. There came the all too familiar and monotonous break up!
He was devastated. He truly loved her and he could not believe that she was no more going to be a part of his life. Whenever she needed help, he was the first person to provide her all the required resources. His timely advices sometimes gave her back the lost confidence to not only live, but to live happily and meaningfully. He was her backbone and assisted her in overcoming all the challenges she faced. He was no less than a mentor to her. He went an extra mile to help her take up different tasks and convert them into significant opportunities that transformed her life from good to better.
The boy was no petty guy. He equally loved his dreams. Those dreams were realistic. He was capable of achieving them successfully. He dreamed of establishing an organization and employ 100s of people. He had plans to be a philanthropist and work towards the education of 1000s of youngsters.
But, do you know why she left him?
She says, “He is not yet settled”. She was also not happy with him for he was not spending adequate time with her.
He always wondered if love only meant spending time at coffee shops, talking to each other for hours a day, making love, Etc. Or was life all about getting a job in a company that offers a fat and handsome salary? It was a cake walk for him to crack those interviews which eventually offered fat-salaried jobs and also irritating managers. But, he desired to own an organisation where he offered salaries to people and build their life.
Thus, our hero, just walked by slowly once she left!
He had decided not to ever lead an ordinary life with her. He forever thought she had to be one person who deserves all his love. He cherished the idea of her being his pillar of strength. But, not anymore! Dreams are meant to end, so are the modern day love stories. He took out his cell phone and immediately typed this and sent to her –
“I will feel very lonely as you aren’t with me anymore. I shared every dream of mine with you because I believed you. I thought you are capable of standing by my side in the most difficult times of my life. I pushed you to pursue your dreams too. I never made you to let go off the best opportunities you came across.
Well, well, I’ll continue to pursue my dreams! You might have let me down, but I will not let my dreams down!
After you, there might be girls who'll come and go in my life but as and when there'll be a moment when a girl will come and not go out of my life, I'll gift her not only myself but all the luxuries of life with lots of love.
You know why?
I know I'll be the best version of me when I'm with her and she'll be the best version of her when she's with me in every situation we come across because I believe that a relationship is all about two people bringing out the best out of each other. Thank you!"

PS: Let relationships get the best out of you.
Win World by Love.

Wishing you Happy and a Glorious 2016

It’ll be 2016 after a few days, how quickly time passes know?” said my friend as he put his hand on my shoulder. In the flow of that conversation I said yes and continued talking. When I came back home, I realised that how can year by year pass so quickly? Every year has 365 days and each day has 24 hours. Still why many of us think time flies? This thought was lingered in my mind. Just then I came across a very good friend of mine who hated her job but was over burdened with a lot of work. I asked what her new year’s plans was, and she said she had to work. Suddenly I realised that, Many of us think time flies because we always keep waiting what next would happen but fail to enjoy that particular moment. We fail to enjoy the smallest moments because of our day to day stress, tension, worries and busy schedule. How long has it been since you have enjoyed your morning coffee? How long has it been since you enjoyed a sunrise? How long has it been since you gazed at the stars in dark nights. There is so much of beauty around us and we have failed to have “Pause moments” in our busy life today. Pause moments are the moments when you lose yourself enjoying something really good. I wish everyone is filled with a lot of Pause moments in this upcoming year. Let’s try something new, visit new places, dance to the latest beats and take a pledge to enjoy every moment in the upcoming year 2016. Relax, Live, Love and Celebrate every moment of life. Finally WinWorldbyLove.

Destroy your enemies today!

President Lincoln while addressing a gathering was speaking something very good about people who wanted to put him down.
A journalist then asked,"Mr President, why do you speak so much good about your enemies? Shouldn't you be destroying them instead?

Lincoln answered, "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"

Lets not destroy our enemies, Let's destroy the feeling of enmity with the tool called LOVE!
Come join hands to build a better world filled with Love and Happiness.
Let's not be a generation that just goes by as time flies, 
Instead Let's be the generation to make an impact to the society. 

Win World by Love

Life is all about Recreating Yourself.!

I thought about conveying today's post through this video. Watch this alone for more effectiveness. Share this video for more people to recreate themselves. Let the change begin with you! Recreate Yourself! 'Let's together make this world a beautiful place.

Win World by Love

Who actually is your best friend?

As soon as you read this title, I'm sure you'll be thinking about one or two people as to who your best friend is. But No, I here am talking about the best friend who was with you all these years since your birth.

There was once a priest in a town who always used to address and advice the problems and needs of the people in the town. On a particular day when the priest was walking back home after his session of addressing the problems of people, a little girl stopped him on the way to ask him a question.

The priest for a moment thought of asking the girl to come and meet him next day morning as he was very tired but seeing the innocence on the girl’s face he thought he will answer the girl and took the girl to a place where they could sit. When the priest asked what the girl wanted to know, the girl asked, “You give solutions to many people when they face problems, many people today are free from their problems and are happy. I want to know what you do when you face problems. Do you go to anyone? ” 

The priest was shocked to know that such a small girl was asking such a big question that no one ever had asked the priest. The priest smiled and said, “I go to my best friend when I face problems!”

“Oh! You have a best friend? Who is he/she?” the girl asked curiously.

The priest held his hand over the girl’s head and told, “Very often, we support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we analyse this process properly we never realise we have solution within us. But the problem is many people fail to recognise that when they can be a solution provider for others, they also can be a solution provider for themselves.”

This is so exciting! How does this go?

You got to become your best friend for it. When you have time for others, why don’t you have time for yourself? Spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself. Start analysing your day to day activities and you’ll live your life then not as a ‘Problem finder’ but as a ‘Solution giver’. I have to leave now, I’ll meet you sometime later as a great person. Win World by Love” he wished and left.

Very often we give advises and support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we face problems we don't know what to do and we consult others for solutions. Ever wondered why that happens? 

We get to spend so much time with others and eventually end up not spending time with ourselves. 

Just spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself from today and start analyzing your day to day activities. Become your own best friend, find solutions to your problems and you'll start living a happy loving life. 

Finally  “WINWORLDBYLOVE”.

Friend! A Cosmic Gift and Responsibility!

Some chemistry in the cosmic presence makes you meet a few people and you’ll no longer feel alone. This chemistry with a person makes you learn, succeed, grow, fight, fall, etc. and it is known as friendship. A friend is a cosmic gift to one's life who contributes in many ways and gives us experiences(Good or Bad) to carry for a lifetime!
Friendship might have many definitions and meanings but what it means to you differs from what it means to me. Always remember,

“Friendship is a responsibility and it’s a relationship that is not limited with any boundaries.”

This post is not to write about friendship because friendship day must not be restricted to one day as it's an everyday celebration. 

The reason I wrote this post is to ask you to take a few minutes to close your eyes and remember all your friends who were with you from childhood till this day. I’m sure a smile is going to blossom from your heart during this process.

Activity:
On this friendship day, Can you talk to that one friend who was very close to you but now you don’t talk to him/her because of ego? This requires a lot of courage to be done but try doing this and I’m sure things will not be the same. I did mine, it’s time for you to talk to him/her.

Finally I take this opportunity to thank every friend of mine for everything and I dedicate this post to all of you carrying a responsibility of friendship;
Loving you all so much,

WIN WORLD BY LOVE

It's time to make your Day, A Great Day!

It was time for the principal to announce the best teacher award in the school assembly that day and most of the students almost knew whom the award belonged to. “The Best Teacher award for this year goes to Amuka” announced the principal and there was a loud cheer from the students standing in the assembly.

Amuka always used to divide his class into two halves. The first part would be to teach the subject and the second part was telling short stories which had morals in it which led to the overall development of the children. The principal called Amuka on stage to speak a few words,

Amuka walked on stage and paused for a minute standing in front of the mic. The assembly was quiet and wanted to hear to him. “Can we learn something today itself sir?” asked the principle mockingly!

Amuka smiled, took a deep breath and continued, “I wish every one of you a Great morning! (There was a huge round of applause) Very often and very mechanically we wish people a Good Morning, a Good afternoon or a Good evening for which people also wish back without even knowing why we wish. When we wish a person Good Morning, it means that I wish your morning be good. We mechanically have developed a habit of wishing a person since our childhood, why can’t we improvise in we wishing people? 
Everything in the world has evolved today like your phones, computers, automobiles etc. except the way we wish people. It’s time to evolve and that’s the reason I’ve updated my GM from Good Morning to Great Morning. Let us start this practice from today and actually start wishing people the best. Try experiencing this from today and indulge in the process of wishing people the best and enjoy the feel of you getting wished back with similar best wishes. Today is a day that'll never come again for you and me, Make it a great one! Thank you one and all”

There was a big round of applause after he spoke and later the principle thanked him for talking something that could make an impact to the entire school as well as the society. “Wishing you all a GREAT MORNING and I wish you have a Great day ahead”, wished the principal and concluded the assembly.

Watch people getting into office, school or college in the morning hours, everyone keeps saying “Good morning”. Most of them just do it mechanically and they don’t even notice the person they wished.  It’s time to evolve and update our Good to Great/Happy/Best. Any how we wish people every day, why not we wish them the best? See the change in the environment around you once you start this process. Remember, Today is a day that'll never come again for you, therefore make it a Great one! 

I wish you a GREAT DAY! Lastly, WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Smile or Smiley?

“You’ve forgotten to smile since the usage of smiley began. Laughing now has become LOL, ROFL and LMAO. You aren’t able to have lunch/dinner without using a smart phone. When was the last that you spoke to your beloved ones without having a mobile in our hand? Is technology taking over humanity so much?” A frustrated grandfather wrote this before his death.

Aren’t we becoming DUMB with the use of SMART phones? Is our relation with the smart phone important than our relation with others? Think!!

Let us not allow the above incident to happen in our lives. Let any relation not feel that we give importance to our mobile phones than them. It’s time to give a break to our thumbs and give some work to our brains.

Let’s start smiling than using a Smiley;

And begin actual laughing than using LOL, ROFL etc.

We shall spend quality time with our family and friends,

And see to that these relationships never ends.

Be SMARTER than the Smart phones,

And then see how your World Glows!

Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE!

Who are you Father!

It was a Sunday and it was the day when Nikhil and Meera were taken to their grandmother’s place. Nikhil and Meera were twins and they used to visit their grandmother almost 4 times a month. Their grandmother loved spending time with these kids playing with them, feeding them lunch, watching movies and finally the last part which these kids loved the most which was sleeping on granny's lap and listening to stories which was one of the main reason for them to visit her so often. 

These stories not only made them sleep but also it helped them gain a lot of maturity.

Nikhil and Meera were upset on a particular day when they were yelled by their father and eventually the decent kids complained this to their grandmother and their grandmother just smiled for once and said “Its fine! We shall take care of him later.” The kids as usual forgot everything and were in their own world playing and later came to get the lunch fed by their grandmother. 

After feeding them lunch, the grandmother gently made both the kids sleep on her lap and told,

“There was once a man who never looked for praises, who was not the one who used to boast about himself, he always used to quietly go for work and he always used to see to that his family never suffered what he suffered. He was the happiest man when his children were born and he saw to that he gave everything to them. He was ready to do anything when they had health issues but he was a man with lot of ego to express his love towards his children and family.

Once he was facing a lot of trouble at the place of his work but he never shared it with his family members as he didn’t want to disturb their peace of mind with his head ache. This disturbance went on for a long period where he couldn’t outburst anything to his boss but one day he came home and outburst in front of his children, whom he had the freedom to express. His children thought that their father didn’t love them any longer for this incident and his children were upset.”

There was a long pause after she completed telling about this person. The children were misty eyed and didn’t know what to do.

The grandmother continued, “Dear children, don’t make it too late to forgive your first hero of your life! Sometimes you don’t even know what he’s going through; if he yells at you for no reason, it means that he’s expressing to you what he couldn’t express to others. When this happens, just hug him and say I understand. Don’t let small misunderstandings become large disappointments.”

When the children returned back home in the evening, they hugged their father and said, “Paa, Thank you! In every way you’ve seen to that our lives is better than yours. Love you.”

Their father was shocked and hugged back his children and drops of tears rolled down the cheek of the father!

In our adolescent years, whenever we get shouted at by our father we feel he doesn’t love us anymore. Fathers are egoistic compared to mothers in expression of love. Day and night he selflessly works for the people whom he loves the most. Most of us fail to express our fathers the way we love him when he’s alive. Take an opportunity in expressing him your love today. In case he isn’t anymore, take a moment in closing your eyes and say “Thank you”!

 Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Inspiration to many- Women

Graduation! It's a day where students wait eagerly during the beginning of a year and a day which they don’t want to come during their final year.  It is a day where maximum of photo sessions are seen like it does during a marriage. It is an emotional day where you don’t want to let go off your memories with your friends, teachers and the campus.

Erika, who was a graduate that day was beautifully dressed in a saree. She had a smile which radiated through her eyes to the people indicating the joy of graduating and her smile also radiated a vision which was within her to achieve big in life with flying colours.

Erika was very different compared to other girls of her age, she was a happy girl and was matured enough to handle things. “Happy girls are the prettiest” she used to say and move around where people surrounding Erika would be happy seeing her happiness. It was a lesson for other girls to know that happy girls attracted the most to people than any other prettier girls. Erika’s maturity and her character made her have a lot of friends. She was the college topper for that year and she was a few moments away from receiving the felicitation from the principal.

All of us would feel the same on graduation day, that the time period in college passed very quickly and so was the case of everyone in her college.

Erika, before receiving the certificate of graduation from the principal wanted to meet a person who was solely responsible for her to be the way she was. The anxiety of meeting him for one last time made Erika fear and slowly started walking towards the staff room where Vijay used to sit. Vijay was busy posing for pictures with his students.

“Ah! There you are” said the master happily to Erika. They both shared a very good chemistry in the college of a student and a teacher and Vijay had helped Erika a lot in her personality development. One of the statement that Vijay had taught her was ‘’Happy Girls are the prettiest’’ which made Erika be a happy person.

“”I’m going to miss you so much” said Erika to Vijay where tears were about to roll down her cheeks. Vijay casually held his hand over her head and said, “I surely will miss you too my dear.”

Then Vijay congratulated Erika for her performance in academics and Erika just wished she could’ve received the certificate from the person who mattered the most in the college, Vijay. Vijay wanted to tell Erika what always kept him worried at the back of his mind when he used to think about women today.

In this society, we always find a girl who tops in school, we always find a girl who tops in her exam during college days but where is her performance as she starts getting older? This always used to worry Vijay regarding his female students. Their contribution to the society is not appreciated and the perception about women doing something for themselves should be changed. They too have dreams, they should be allowed to fulfill them and do something big without having to compromise. Vijay advised Erika regarding this and finally their talk was over when Vijay wished Erika to make it big in life to her maximum capable potential. Erika gently smiled and thanked her master who was her inspiration. Their conversation ended with a smile and finally the master had some expectation of women too achieving the way he dreamt of.

“I’ll not compromise for anything sir, the days of me reaching the top are soon to come’’.  I will do it, I will do it, she said to herself and moved to the auditorium to get felicitated with her degree. 

Dear women, do not compromise on your dream for anything. Your potential is being appreciated during your younger days, continue to make a difference as you grow old. Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE.  

Let's not make this an Activity; Lets turn this into Productivity.

I would like to thank each and everyone of you for the appreciation and the tremendous response I got for my first post which meant like scoring a goal in the very first minute of a football game, having said that I also know that any game is not over till the very end. For all the response and the appreciation that I've got, I would like to promise you that the quality of my posts from now on will keep getting better. A motivation and an encouragement always to a cause is when the posts are being shared so that some of these are at least put into use by somebody in their life and this can only happen when it reaches to many people.
Collection of many droplets can form an ocean, Let's share and together march to build a new world for us and for our future generation.
 As the title says,
Let's not make this an activity of reading or writing, 
Let's make this productive by implementing to situations of daily life and spreading it.

Why "WIN WORLD BY LOVE"?

We can only give to the society what we have, for example a person having a lot of money can give money, a person having cloths can give cloths and a place having a resource can give out it's resource (for example Dubai giving out fossil fuels). When it comes to the question of what we can give out to the society, we need to know that God has created us with so much of love and creativity that there was not a single person born like the other in the entire history of humanity and there will not be any person same as the other. This alone is enough for us to understand how much love we are made up with that we're none like the rest. From this can we conclude that the greatest resource which was flowing abundantly within us was Love.

"There is no limit as to how many people a person can love or how much a person can love the other! "

So can we start giving out love to the other people since there is no limit as to how many you can love? The more love you give to others, the more it flows within us and we saw this through a lady who served humanity with so much of love flowing within her who was named Mother Teresa.  

From now on, I would like to convey my messages through stories which I've always loved to express messages. These messages or stories would not be from any book or from any persons, these would be just mere truths that I would like to express by looking at the observations of life.


To paint smiles across grieving hearts, 
I begin my journey penning down my thoughts;
Stories are the one I've loved since my childhood,
Through them I shall promise you
A happily loving world.
Lets put our hands together
And Win World by Love!

Thank you all,
Love you so much,
Stay tuned.