Wishing you Happy and a Glorious 2016

It’ll be 2016 after a few days, how quickly time passes know?” said my friend as he put his hand on my shoulder. In the flow of that conversation I said yes and continued talking. When I came back home, I realised that how can year by year pass so quickly? Every year has 365 days and each day has 24 hours. Still why many of us think time flies? This thought was lingered in my mind. Just then I came across a very good friend of mine who hated her job but was over burdened with a lot of work. I asked what her new year’s plans was, and she said she had to work. Suddenly I realised that, Many of us think time flies because we always keep waiting what next would happen but fail to enjoy that particular moment. We fail to enjoy the smallest moments because of our day to day stress, tension, worries and busy schedule. How long has it been since you have enjoyed your morning coffee? How long has it been since you enjoyed a sunrise? How long has it been since you gazed at the stars in dark nights. There is so much of beauty around us and we have failed to have “Pause moments” in our busy life today. Pause moments are the moments when you lose yourself enjoying something really good. I wish everyone is filled with a lot of Pause moments in this upcoming year. Let’s try something new, visit new places, dance to the latest beats and take a pledge to enjoy every moment in the upcoming year 2016. Relax, Live, Love and Celebrate every moment of life. Finally WinWorldbyLove.

Destroy your enemies today!

President Lincoln while addressing a gathering was speaking something very good about people who wanted to put him down.
A journalist then asked,"Mr President, why do you speak so much good about your enemies? Shouldn't you be destroying them instead?

Lincoln answered, "Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"

Lets not destroy our enemies, Let's destroy the feeling of enmity with the tool called LOVE!
Come join hands to build a better world filled with Love and Happiness.
Let's not be a generation that just goes by as time flies, 
Instead Let's be the generation to make an impact to the society. 

Win World by Love

Who actually is your best friend?

As soon as you read this title, I'm sure you'll be thinking about one or two people as to who your best friend is. But No, I here am talking about the best friend who was with you all these years since your birth.

There was once a priest in a town who always used to address and advice the problems and needs of the people in the town. On a particular day when the priest was walking back home after his session of addressing the problems of people, a little girl stopped him on the way to ask him a question.

The priest for a moment thought of asking the girl to come and meet him next day morning as he was very tired but seeing the innocence on the girl’s face he thought he will answer the girl and took the girl to a place where they could sit. When the priest asked what the girl wanted to know, the girl asked, “You give solutions to many people when they face problems, many people today are free from their problems and are happy. I want to know what you do when you face problems. Do you go to anyone? ” 

The priest was shocked to know that such a small girl was asking such a big question that no one ever had asked the priest. The priest smiled and said, “I go to my best friend when I face problems!”

“Oh! You have a best friend? Who is he/she?” the girl asked curiously.

The priest held his hand over the girl’s head and told, “Very often, we support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we analyse this process properly we never realise we have solution within us. But the problem is many people fail to recognise that when they can be a solution provider for others, they also can be a solution provider for themselves.”

This is so exciting! How does this go?

You got to become your best friend for it. When you have time for others, why don’t you have time for yourself? Spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself. Start analysing your day to day activities and you’ll live your life then not as a ‘Problem finder’ but as a ‘Solution giver’. I have to leave now, I’ll meet you sometime later as a great person. Win World by Love” he wished and left.

Very often we give advises and support people around us with various solutions to their problems but when we face problems we don't know what to do and we consult others for solutions. Ever wondered why that happens? 

We get to spend so much time with others and eventually end up not spending time with ourselves. 

Just spend atleast 10 minutes a day with yourself from today and start analyzing your day to day activities. Become your own best friend, find solutions to your problems and you'll start living a happy loving life. 

Finally  “WINWORLDBYLOVE”.

Friend! A Cosmic Gift and Responsibility!

Some chemistry in the cosmic presence makes you meet a few people and you’ll no longer feel alone. This chemistry with a person makes you learn, succeed, grow, fight, fall, etc. and it is known as friendship. A friend is a cosmic gift to one's life who contributes in many ways and gives us experiences(Good or Bad) to carry for a lifetime!
Friendship might have many definitions and meanings but what it means to you differs from what it means to me. Always remember,

“Friendship is a responsibility and it’s a relationship that is not limited with any boundaries.”

This post is not to write about friendship because friendship day must not be restricted to one day as it's an everyday celebration. 

The reason I wrote this post is to ask you to take a few minutes to close your eyes and remember all your friends who were with you from childhood till this day. I’m sure a smile is going to blossom from your heart during this process.

Activity:
On this friendship day, Can you talk to that one friend who was very close to you but now you don’t talk to him/her because of ego? This requires a lot of courage to be done but try doing this and I’m sure things will not be the same. I did mine, it’s time for you to talk to him/her.

Finally I take this opportunity to thank every friend of mine for everything and I dedicate this post to all of you carrying a responsibility of friendship;
Loving you all so much,

WIN WORLD BY LOVE

It's time to make your Day, A Great Day!

It was time for the principal to announce the best teacher award in the school assembly that day and most of the students almost knew whom the award belonged to. “The Best Teacher award for this year goes to Amuka” announced the principal and there was a loud cheer from the students standing in the assembly.

Amuka always used to divide his class into two halves. The first part would be to teach the subject and the second part was telling short stories which had morals in it which led to the overall development of the children. The principal called Amuka on stage to speak a few words,

Amuka walked on stage and paused for a minute standing in front of the mic. The assembly was quiet and wanted to hear to him. “Can we learn something today itself sir?” asked the principle mockingly!

Amuka smiled, took a deep breath and continued, “I wish every one of you a Great morning! (There was a huge round of applause) Very often and very mechanically we wish people a Good Morning, a Good afternoon or a Good evening for which people also wish back without even knowing why we wish. When we wish a person Good Morning, it means that I wish your morning be good. We mechanically have developed a habit of wishing a person since our childhood, why can’t we improvise in we wishing people? 
Everything in the world has evolved today like your phones, computers, automobiles etc. except the way we wish people. It’s time to evolve and that’s the reason I’ve updated my GM from Good Morning to Great Morning. Let us start this practice from today and actually start wishing people the best. Try experiencing this from today and indulge in the process of wishing people the best and enjoy the feel of you getting wished back with similar best wishes. Today is a day that'll never come again for you and me, Make it a great one! Thank you one and all”

There was a big round of applause after he spoke and later the principle thanked him for talking something that could make an impact to the entire school as well as the society. “Wishing you all a GREAT MORNING and I wish you have a Great day ahead”, wished the principal and concluded the assembly.

Watch people getting into office, school or college in the morning hours, everyone keeps saying “Good morning”. Most of them just do it mechanically and they don’t even notice the person they wished.  It’s time to evolve and update our Good to Great/Happy/Best. Any how we wish people every day, why not we wish them the best? See the change in the environment around you once you start this process. Remember, Today is a day that'll never come again for you, therefore make it a Great one! 

I wish you a GREAT DAY! Lastly, WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Smile or Smiley?

“You’ve forgotten to smile since the usage of smiley began. Laughing now has become LOL, ROFL and LMAO. You aren’t able to have lunch/dinner without using a smart phone. When was the last that you spoke to your beloved ones without having a mobile in our hand? Is technology taking over humanity so much?” A frustrated grandfather wrote this before his death.

Aren’t we becoming DUMB with the use of SMART phones? Is our relation with the smart phone important than our relation with others? Think!!

Let us not allow the above incident to happen in our lives. Let any relation not feel that we give importance to our mobile phones than them. It’s time to give a break to our thumbs and give some work to our brains.

Let’s start smiling than using a Smiley;

And begin actual laughing than using LOL, ROFL etc.

We shall spend quality time with our family and friends,

And see to that these relationships never ends.

Be SMARTER than the Smart phones,

And then see how your World Glows!

Finally WIN WORLD BY LOVE!

Introduction to me and my intention behind starting this blog.

I’m Ruthuparna Sharma, well I think this much introduction is enough and you can get to know more about me once you start following my posts in my blog. At least by this way of getting to know about me, I wish you read more posts of mine.

Well, I’m very much passionate of being a businessman just because of the desire of making a mark in life. I would not like to be anybody in this opportunity of life and I want to make a mark and be “somebody” in this life.

We've seen many successful and famous people who've made it big in the world today because of a discomfort which caused within them through a situation, like how Gandhi being ill-treated in a railway platform in South Africa had an impact of he coming to India and turning things around which he did for this country. Like this many situations can be quoted but one thing common in all these situations were that any great impact only came out of a discomfort caused in the mind through situations.

In my case I found discomfort in many such situations. Don’t know whether I was normal or anything had happened to me because we know that one situation only is capable enough of making a history but many such situations caused a mystery on myself. For example there was a discomfort in me in learning a subject in my schooling, the people being not treated well etc etc etc

The situations that caused a discomfort within me had nothing in common but I can tell that i found out a tool that could be used to solve these problems and it can be used anywhere and many more problems in this world can be easily solved.  I thought I could be the next Gandhi to this world for a moment when I thought about this tool and went and advised around 3 to 4 friends saying you can solve these problems by the tool and motivated them but was of no use and got advised in return from them. It was a failure from 3 to 4 of my friends whom I failed to explain this to them, so I thought maybe I’m not right and this tool might only be of use and help to me. To be honest there was a call within me which said this was very much possible.

For this reason I've come opened my own blog. Just imagine a happier, loving and a world that you dream of where there is no fear to live properly. If 3 or 4 failed to understand, I'm pretty sure each and everyone will eventually understand the importance of it.

Well I'm pretty sure that you guys would've got to know about the "tool" i was talking by seeing the title. Yes, i was talking about the most powerful tool that is hidden within us or which we haven't yet realised it properly. I was talking about LOVE. Well I feel I need not give any introduction to this topic as we all know what it is, how it is and everything. I'm just here to make you gradually realize how we can use it to build a better world. How to use it? Is a new world filled with love, happiness, bliss, joy possible? 

Yes, Obviously it is possible.

Many more posts to come, will keep updating one by one. 

Love you all.