Why is this happening only to me ?

Sometimes when the going gets tough, you stare at the stars, cry out to an infinite power, wonder why life is getting tougher day by day and also questions in mind arise like why we’re going through what we’re going through…

Reasons can be many like death of a loved one, break-ups, financial struggle, hair loss, career struggle etc.  and even when there are lots of people around us, there is an enormous amount of loneliness that one goes through at these times...

It’s those situations of life where, ‘what you want most is what the universe doesn’t want to give you.’

I started searching for answers,

Friend’s advises like, “Whatever happens, happens for good” started irritating me. Not that it wasn’t true but it wasn’t helping me in that situation.

I closed my eyes and I realized that for these questions of life, there actually isn’t any answer. 

If it’s meant to happen, it will happen. Previously when I had faced such situations, somehow time took me through these situations and now as well I know it will.

But when I went through these situations,

I got to know that there were some lessons that life taught me during these tough times. I also realized that I as a finite intelligence couldn’t comprehend the infinite intelligence and thus decided that I’ll not only go through life but I’ll grow through life through the experiences that God has planned for me.

Life prepares you for bigger things through tough times. Don’t only go through it, Grow through it. Stop questioning, Start acting positively according to the situations.

Win World by Love...

A Relationship

"A RELATIONSHIP"

“You are the best thing that happened to me. You’ll find a better girl than me” she said that popular filmy dialogue and hugged him for one last time. There came the all too familiar and monotonous break up!
He was devastated. He truly loved her and he could not believe that she was no more going to be a part of his life. Whenever she needed help, he was the first person to provide her all the required resources. His timely advices sometimes gave her back the lost confidence to not only live, but to live happily and meaningfully. He was her backbone and assisted her in overcoming all the challenges she faced. He was no less than a mentor to her. He went an extra mile to help her take up different tasks and convert them into significant opportunities that transformed her life from good to better.
The boy was no petty guy. He equally loved his dreams. Those dreams were realistic. He was capable of achieving them successfully. He dreamed of establishing an organization and employ 100s of people. He had plans to be a philanthropist and work towards the education of 1000s of youngsters.
But, do you know why she left him?
She says, “He is not yet settled”. She was also not happy with him for he was not spending adequate time with her.
He always wondered if love only meant spending time at coffee shops, talking to each other for hours a day, making love, Etc. Or was life all about getting a job in a company that offers a fat and handsome salary? It was a cake walk for him to crack those interviews which eventually offered fat-salaried jobs and also irritating managers. But, he desired to own an organisation where he offered salaries to people and build their life.
Thus, our hero, just walked by slowly once she left!
He had decided not to ever lead an ordinary life with her. He forever thought she had to be one person who deserves all his love. He cherished the idea of her being his pillar of strength. But, not anymore! Dreams are meant to end, so are the modern day love stories. He took out his cell phone and immediately typed this and sent to her –
“I will feel very lonely as you aren’t with me anymore. I shared every dream of mine with you because I believed you. I thought you are capable of standing by my side in the most difficult times of my life. I pushed you to pursue your dreams too. I never made you to let go off the best opportunities you came across.
Well, well, I’ll continue to pursue my dreams! You might have let me down, but I will not let my dreams down!
After you, there might be girls who'll come and go in my life but as and when there'll be a moment when a girl will come and not go out of my life, I'll gift her not only myself but all the luxuries of life with lots of love.
You know why?
I know I'll be the best version of me when I'm with her and she'll be the best version of her when she's with me in every situation we come across because I believe that a relationship is all about two people bringing out the best out of each other. Thank you!"

PS: Let relationships get the best out of you.
Win World by Love.

Life is all about Recreating Yourself.!

I thought about conveying today's post through this video. Watch this alone for more effectiveness. Share this video for more people to recreate themselves. Let the change begin with you! Recreate Yourself! 'Let's together make this world a beautiful place.

Win World by Love

It's time to make your Day, A Great Day!

It was time for the principal to announce the best teacher award in the school assembly that day and most of the students almost knew whom the award belonged to. “The Best Teacher award for this year goes to Amuka” announced the principal and there was a loud cheer from the students standing in the assembly.

Amuka always used to divide his class into two halves. The first part would be to teach the subject and the second part was telling short stories which had morals in it which led to the overall development of the children. The principal called Amuka on stage to speak a few words,

Amuka walked on stage and paused for a minute standing in front of the mic. The assembly was quiet and wanted to hear to him. “Can we learn something today itself sir?” asked the principle mockingly!

Amuka smiled, took a deep breath and continued, “I wish every one of you a Great morning! (There was a huge round of applause) Very often and very mechanically we wish people a Good Morning, a Good afternoon or a Good evening for which people also wish back without even knowing why we wish. When we wish a person Good Morning, it means that I wish your morning be good. We mechanically have developed a habit of wishing a person since our childhood, why can’t we improvise in we wishing people? 
Everything in the world has evolved today like your phones, computers, automobiles etc. except the way we wish people. It’s time to evolve and that’s the reason I’ve updated my GM from Good Morning to Great Morning. Let us start this practice from today and actually start wishing people the best. Try experiencing this from today and indulge in the process of wishing people the best and enjoy the feel of you getting wished back with similar best wishes. Today is a day that'll never come again for you and me, Make it a great one! Thank you one and all”

There was a big round of applause after he spoke and later the principle thanked him for talking something that could make an impact to the entire school as well as the society. “Wishing you all a GREAT MORNING and I wish you have a Great day ahead”, wished the principal and concluded the assembly.

Watch people getting into office, school or college in the morning hours, everyone keeps saying “Good morning”. Most of them just do it mechanically and they don’t even notice the person they wished.  It’s time to evolve and update our Good to Great/Happy/Best. Any how we wish people every day, why not we wish them the best? See the change in the environment around you once you start this process. Remember, Today is a day that'll never come again for you, therefore make it a Great one! 

I wish you a GREAT DAY! Lastly, WIN WORLD BY LOVE.

Let's not make this an Activity; Lets turn this into Productivity.

I would like to thank each and everyone of you for the appreciation and the tremendous response I got for my first post which meant like scoring a goal in the very first minute of a football game, having said that I also know that any game is not over till the very end. For all the response and the appreciation that I've got, I would like to promise you that the quality of my posts from now on will keep getting better. A motivation and an encouragement always to a cause is when the posts are being shared so that some of these are at least put into use by somebody in their life and this can only happen when it reaches to many people.
Collection of many droplets can form an ocean, Let's share and together march to build a new world for us and for our future generation.
 As the title says,
Let's not make this an activity of reading or writing, 
Let's make this productive by implementing to situations of daily life and spreading it.

Why "WIN WORLD BY LOVE"?

We can only give to the society what we have, for example a person having a lot of money can give money, a person having cloths can give cloths and a place having a resource can give out it's resource (for example Dubai giving out fossil fuels). When it comes to the question of what we can give out to the society, we need to know that God has created us with so much of love and creativity that there was not a single person born like the other in the entire history of humanity and there will not be any person same as the other. This alone is enough for us to understand how much love we are made up with that we're none like the rest. From this can we conclude that the greatest resource which was flowing abundantly within us was Love.

"There is no limit as to how many people a person can love or how much a person can love the other! "

So can we start giving out love to the other people since there is no limit as to how many you can love? The more love you give to others, the more it flows within us and we saw this through a lady who served humanity with so much of love flowing within her who was named Mother Teresa.  

From now on, I would like to convey my messages through stories which I've always loved to express messages. These messages or stories would not be from any book or from any persons, these would be just mere truths that I would like to express by looking at the observations of life.


To paint smiles across grieving hearts, 
I begin my journey penning down my thoughts;
Stories are the one I've loved since my childhood,
Through them I shall promise you
A happily loving world.
Lets put our hands together
And Win World by Love!

Thank you all,
Love you so much,
Stay tuned.

Introduction to me and my intention behind starting this blog.

I’m Ruthuparna Sharma, well I think this much introduction is enough and you can get to know more about me once you start following my posts in my blog. At least by this way of getting to know about me, I wish you read more posts of mine.

Well, I’m very much passionate of being a businessman just because of the desire of making a mark in life. I would not like to be anybody in this opportunity of life and I want to make a mark and be “somebody” in this life.

We've seen many successful and famous people who've made it big in the world today because of a discomfort which caused within them through a situation, like how Gandhi being ill-treated in a railway platform in South Africa had an impact of he coming to India and turning things around which he did for this country. Like this many situations can be quoted but one thing common in all these situations were that any great impact only came out of a discomfort caused in the mind through situations.

In my case I found discomfort in many such situations. Don’t know whether I was normal or anything had happened to me because we know that one situation only is capable enough of making a history but many such situations caused a mystery on myself. For example there was a discomfort in me in learning a subject in my schooling, the people being not treated well etc etc etc

The situations that caused a discomfort within me had nothing in common but I can tell that i found out a tool that could be used to solve these problems and it can be used anywhere and many more problems in this world can be easily solved.  I thought I could be the next Gandhi to this world for a moment when I thought about this tool and went and advised around 3 to 4 friends saying you can solve these problems by the tool and motivated them but was of no use and got advised in return from them. It was a failure from 3 to 4 of my friends whom I failed to explain this to them, so I thought maybe I’m not right and this tool might only be of use and help to me. To be honest there was a call within me which said this was very much possible.

For this reason I've come opened my own blog. Just imagine a happier, loving and a world that you dream of where there is no fear to live properly. If 3 or 4 failed to understand, I'm pretty sure each and everyone will eventually understand the importance of it.

Well I'm pretty sure that you guys would've got to know about the "tool" i was talking by seeing the title. Yes, i was talking about the most powerful tool that is hidden within us or which we haven't yet realised it properly. I was talking about LOVE. Well I feel I need not give any introduction to this topic as we all know what it is, how it is and everything. I'm just here to make you gradually realize how we can use it to build a better world. How to use it? Is a new world filled with love, happiness, bliss, joy possible? 

Yes, Obviously it is possible.

Many more posts to come, will keep updating one by one. 

Love you all.